Neurotic Sick Days: Reusable Bags

We're all sick and it sucks, but I decided to at least make good use of the down time.  Being neurotic a project was in order.  After running around to the doctors this morning we swung by the thrift store to snag some sheets.  Sounds weird right?  You betcha...I got two king sized shams and a flat sheet that sort of matched.  I even scored a waterproof twin mattress protector for $2...in the package otherwise gross.  Total cost of everything $4.58  Sweet deal.  I've been wanting to use reusable bags at the stores but when I restrict myself to two grocery runs a month I would need 15-20 bags.  Running between $1-2 a piece at the store, I find that kinda silly.  But, I've been making a real effort to "go green" and I'm honestly tired of trying to jam all the plastic grocery bags under my cabinet until I remember to take them to the recycling.  Soooo....I googled and found a blog on how to make my own bags, out of recycled material...sheets!  It took me an hour and half total to do the two bags...but I was also baking brownies to send off, and watching the littles, so it was a stop and start project.  It was amazingly easy once I got the first one done I saw the short cuts I should of used the first round...so the second bag took maybe 20 mins.  Total cost per bag...$.25 since I had the thread and I just used the edge of the pillow case as my handles.  I think I'm stopping at two today, my eyes hurt and the littles are getting restless, but only 13 more bags to go :) 

Decisions...Decisions...

I am the worst about updating the blog but since I haven’t had a very exciting past week, I figure it is for the best.  This maybe a weird topic to blog about but its whats going on in our lives.

This past week we’ve been kicking (and screaming ;) around the idea of an alternative way of schooling the boys.  I’m not saying public school doesn’t have its positives or great teachers…it is more like the red tape, lacking of parenting some kids have, and the budget cuts that are killing our school system.  It seems like public schools are way different than when we were there 10 years ago.  There seems to be a lot of positives about alternative schooling (such as a charter, private, or home schooling) but one major worry we have is socialization…and yet that is one major concern too.  I realize I’m biased to small towns since I was raised in one but it seems like the teachers weren’t as restricted with discipline and honesty as a lot of the teachers in more populated ones are.  I don’t believe in hover style parenting or sugar coating life…I believe self esteem is built through doing a good job and praise (maybe an encouraging “You’ll do better next time” too)…not about a “Yea! Everyone participated!” outlook.    Score should be kept at ballgames and I think kids should learn that practicing and giving it their best is the way to win…  Not all schools and definitely not all parents have adapted this thought process of sugar coating for their kids but it seems to be a growing politically correct world where they do.  In researching alternatives I’ve seen some different thoughts on the public school system and I feel like they make good points.  I worry about Aiden getting bored in school since he seems to be a quick learner…not all students learn at the same level/speed and while students shouldn’t be “left behind” what happens to those who are ahead of the curve?  I’ve spoken with a Mom in the area with an accelerated learner and she said they don’t offer AP classes…just assign them more homework.  So..hmm…is that a reward or punishment? I remember feeling like doing 10 worksheets a day over the same thing was so futile…was I actually contributing anything with these worksheets? This isn’t real life to me either and not all kids learn the same way.  Public schools are not about supervised socialization, so most students are learning their social skills and what is morally acceptable from their peers unsupervised…watch the news and see all the studies (and stories) on bullying and recently the school where 90 girls were pregnant or had babies this year.  One article I read I thought made a good point about how school creates an unrealistic pecking order and social status…some of the bottom feeding “nerds” of public schools go on to build their own Fortune 500 companies (you can't tell me Bill Gates didn't get bullied)…the jocks might get the shock of a lifetime at college when they realize they're just like everyone else, etc.  Another point was that the school setting isn’t realistic…while teachers do apply lessons to real life they can’t always go out and live it.  Alternative schools offer students real life lessons in places of business, now math isn’t just a worksheet and test on interest rates…it is going to the bank and discussing variable vs. fixed rates with a loan officer.    Of course there are drawbacks to alternative schools…socialization I mentioned before can be handled with extracurricular activities, charter schools, and other groups like Boy Scouts, 4-H, etc. But there is also the time and cost that is involved.  I see home schooling as a great alternative but part of me fears I'll be sending a shy awkward eighteen year old into a scary world. (Although studies show homeschoolers to be more well balanced and less peer dependent.)  So is this me just fighting society’s view of alternative schooling or my own fear of this responsibility? Decisions…decisions…

Now, I’m asking for opinions and experience from you guys…do you have any experience with alternative schooling? Is public school meeting your kid’s needs, academically and otherwise?  Anyone ever consider some other path than public school?

Clutter Bug...

Today after stumbling over the millionth toy, book, puzzle piece, and tool…I had it! I’m constantly after Aiden to pickup one set of toys before moving onto another or play in his room (see unrealistic expectations below).  And up until recently he’d been good about it.  But now…he doesn’t even make the attempt, so I clean up his toys as he MAYBE chucks one lego into the basket.  No kid wants to spend his time cleaning up…but no Mom wants to spend the rest of her life picking up after her kids.  Frustrated and tired of the battle, the only conclusion I could come to was to eliminate the clutter/toys.  So I decided to pack up all his toys and store them in the garage.  I figured this announcement would send Aiden into a tantrum or at least have him running to gather his toys up.  But…none of that happened.  The only time he got upset was when I took his green turtle that he’d been hoarding in his bed.  I left out most of his books and a few puzzles, mostly for my sanity.  This whole process didn’t seem to faze him in the least.  He seemed…excited.  It was like now that the clutter was gone he could see every book and puzzle as a bright new toy.  He was so excited when he sorted through his books and sat down to “read” them.  I’ve been teaching him shapes for around six months now but he never seems to focus or be interested in actually learning them, just flipping open the shapes.  Today after removing the entire clutter we sat down and read the shapes book…he named every single shape on the first try…a first.  I was amazed…how instant a change it was in his focus and attention span.  It made me think of how much clutter I have in my life…not just in material items but expectations, frivolous priorities, and hate to admit it, greed (bigger house please!).  It’s a hard thing for me to see past the clutter…but I’m so lucky to have my kids giving me a new (less cluttered) outlook on life! 

A Blog of Our Very Own...

I finally have one for our little family.  It took me a bit of time to figure out all the editing and things like that.  I'm sure there is much more learning curve to go so bare with me.
Today is COLD and snowy, most if not all of the schools are closed around the area since we got about 8 inches (by my calculation).  Aiden loves the snow, he thinks its soapy bubbles..."Look at all the bubbles Mommy!" "It's the bath!" When we were driving yesterday he was upset all the trees were "dirty" though...I had to explain it was snow, but he still didn't like it.  I love my little OCD'er, maybe in a few years he will be my little driveway shoveler...hmm...maybe we should have more kids! : )